Removing recognition
May 30, 2013

recognitionSon: I’m going to be very sad at the end of sports camp this time.

Mum: Why?

Son: Because there’s no wristbands, medals or trophy now – they don’t do that anymore.

Mum: Why don’t they do that anymore?

Son: Because the Coach has got a boss now and he says, “Don’t give out wristbands, medals or trophies at the end because it wastes too much time!”

Mum: Oh dear. And do you think they should carry on giving them out?

Son: Yes, because it’s a good thing for children.

Mum: Why is it a good thing?

Son: Because there are people who haven’t got them yet – like James – it’s not fair for him, he hasn’t got anything – no wristband, no medal, no trophy, nothing. They don’t do any of it now, and he just REALLY wants a wristband, a medal or a trophy! What I really want from there is a wristband.

Mum: Do you try harder if there’s wristbands, medals and trophies at the end?

Son: Yes, we have to work REALLY hard if we want to get one. In the olden days when I didn’t get anything I worked SO hard and I didn’t get anything so I just gave up – I just worked normally. Until eventually I found out that I still wouldn’t get anything, so I gave up from working normally. Then one day I decided to try again and that’s when I got a medal. And then the next time I tried even more and that’s when I got the trophy.

Mum: And how did you feel when they said they weren’t going to give them out any more?

Son: It shocked me so much that I felt angry to hear the news that they didn’t give out wristbands, medals or trophies anymore and to this day, I am still a little upset. I gave up being angry though, because the more you’re angry the less things you’ll get – do you know that?

Mum: That’s true. So, do you work hard when you go to sports camp now?

Son: Now it doesn’t matter if you work hard, because they don’t give out trophies or medals anymore.

Mum: But DO you?

Son: A little bit.

Inflatable football
February 24, 2013

inflatablefootballMe: What did you do at Sports Camp today?

D: Dodgeball, and inflatable football – do you know what inflatable football is?

Me: Is it where you play with an inflatable football?

D: Yes, well, you know the big football pitch that I told you about before?

Me: The one outside?

D: Yes – we played on that and I got gold for my team! I was the only one in our team to get a goal – and so I got 159 points!

Me: Well done! That’s a lot of points for a goal – it MUST have been special.

D: Yes, I was the ONLY one, so it was – how many points did I say?

Slippery goals
February 23, 2013

slipperygoalsD: You can wear slippers to Vikki’s in half term – you really CAN, because I saw some of the other children wearing slippers. But… I’d better wear my trainers because I’m going to Sports Camp and if I put my slippers on to go to Sports Camp I’d kick the ball and it would hurt my feet. Or I’d kick the ball and my slipper would just fly off.

Me: Yes, playing football in your slippers wouldn’t work very well would it?

D: No.

Invisible talking partners
July 24, 2012

D: Mum, my invisible friends are coming with me today. They’ve got their invisible book bags, and their invisible lunch boxes and… Oh – it’s not a school day! They’ve just put their invisible book bags back, but they’ve still got their invisible lunch boxes. But wait a minute – Alphie’s got some problems at home that he needs to solve – because he can’t talk yet. So he’s staying here, and Joseph’s coming to Vikki’s.

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